Mind & Body

The “thing” that changed my life

logomakr_28nbrbNu stiu daca in viata exista o fericire suprema, dar cred ca toata lumea aspira la fericire, la o fericire care nu poate fi descrisa, la un sentiment atat de puternic incat reuseste sa te sufoce, dar sa-ti faca bine. Si mai cred ca fericirea vine in momente neasteptate si nu vine din intamplari miraculoare, ci din valoarea pe care o conferim noi micilor placeri.

Pe tine ce te face fericit?

De aproape 3 luni am cunoscut un fel de fericire aparte. Am inteles cum e sa fii iubit neconditionat. Pentru ca se spune ca ei, cainii, au un mod de a gasi exact persoana care are nevoie de ei si reusesc a umple un gol pe care nici nu stiam ca-l avem.

Azi va fac cunostinta cu Cooper care este cel mai hiperenergic catel -ca stapanul de altfel-  si care reuseste sa ma faca fericita oricand as avea o zi proasta. Ne-am cunoscut cand avea 6 saptamanii si mi-am promis ca din prima zi (3 decembrie) il voi iubi si voi fi alaturi de el neincetat. Desi uneori l-am dezamagit, nereusind sa stau cu el foarte mult timp, pot spune ca el nu m-a dezamagit niciodata. Iar cand il auzeam plangand, cand plecam de la el, mi se rupea inima in bucatele si un suspin mi se rupea mereu din adancul sufletului. Nu m-am putut supara pe el nici dupa prima sa noapte in care a dormit cu mine in camera. Prima si singura noapte. Nu am dormit aproape toata noaptea din cauza plansetelor lui insa era atat de micut si de scump incat parca ma facea sa-l iubesc si mai mult.


Acum are 4 luni si e atat de mare deja ca parca ma ia cu un sentiment de melancolie cand ma gandesc ce pufosenie mica era acu’ aproape 3 luni. Am crescut atat de frumos impreuna si am descoperit ca sunt capabila sa iubesc mai mult decat imi puteam imagina.


Nu ma asteptam deloc ca un caine sa reuseasca sa-mi schimbe viata atat de mult si sa ma transforme pe mine ca persoana.

Si totusi, cum sa nu iubesti un caine cand gesturile lui sunt mai adevarate decat a unor oameni? Si e atat de dragut cand se pune la tine in brate sau cand asteapta sa-l mangai pe burtica. Dar cel mai interesant si frumos e cand incepi sa-l inveti anumite lucruri. In acel moment sunteti intr-o lume a voastra si parca incepeti sa vorbiti aceeasi limba. Intr-o lume in care nu exista negativitate, doar iubire, fericire si pozitivitate. Este o altfel de dragoste fata de cea intalnita pana acum. O dragoste care ma face sa iubesc fiecare moment alaturi de el. Dar ceea ce simt este mult mai profund, este ceva ce nu poate fi descris. De aceea am incetat sa mai caut raspunsuri. Nu totul este legat de un raspuns, ci mai mult de un sentiment. Un sentiment atat de profund, incat iti taie rasuflarea si totusi iti face bine.

logomakr_60zeksSo when you woke up today which was your first thought?

They say it’s love when the first thing you do in the morning is text your loved one. Because that text doesn’t really mean “Good morning” , it’s more a statement which says “I think about you when I wake up”. I know it sounds more like a cliché but do you know who thinks about you in the morning? Who loves you unconditionally? Who would do anything for you? Who wants to put a smile on your face whenever you have a bad day?

They say dogs have a way to find the people who need them, filling an emptiness we didn’t even know we had.

When I met Cooper, it was love at first sight but I didn’t really expect from a dog to change my life so much. Little did I know about how to take care of such a tiny and cute creature but I did and still do my best. Since day 1 ( 3rd of December) I tried to make him understand that from now on I’m going to be his mother, his best friend and the best owner a pet could have. But even if I failed sometimes, he never, ever failed me. Whenever I had a bad day, he succeeded in changing my mood, making me happy.

He’s 4 months now and he’s been mine since he had 6 weeks. We grew together and he made me realize that I am capable of spreading much more love than I ever imagined. And it’s hard not to love them when their gestures are more true than some humans’. It’s hard to feel sad when he tries to sit on your lap. Or when they wait for you to pet them. And the best part is the moment when you teach them some tricks. That is the moment when you both speak the same language. When you have your own world, where negativity doesn’t exist, where love, trust and happiness is what you have. I can’t put into words what I feel about him. He’s my cheat meal on a diet. He’s my coffee on a sleepy morning. He’s my energy on a lazy day. And he is another kind of love than what I’ve met before.


You can’t imagine how a dog can change your life and I couldn’t too. But I stopped seeking for answers to this question because it’s not about the answers, it’s about the feeling. And I can’t describe that feeling because it’s so deep and special that I can’t even embrace it all.

What a beautiful world it would be if people had hearts like dogs.

lovegianniversaceAND COOPER


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